Yay!
Go ME!
So last night after I was so frustrated by the fact that I don’t have any friends to hang out with here and no one to do fun stuff with, I was talking to my sister and then I got this idea.
~devilish grin~
I decided to go online and peruse the singles ads to see what I come across. I have had some great experiences with dating online in the past. With the exception of ONE, all the men I meet are better looking in person and are generally nice to me. The one woman I met online was way prettier than her pictures too. I usually just don’t see any future with us so I brush them off quickly but nothing too serious to complain about.
So this time I was going through ads while I was on the phone with my sister and I was laughing as I read things like:
I’m looking for a sex addict. A woman who is a slut and knows it.
I mean, I could be that, but not this week. LOL
Then I saw an ad that caught my eye. It was a man who described how he loved his girl but she loves women too and he wanted to find a new friend for them both. The words he used and how he described that the woman didn’t have to be a supermodel made me feel comfortable. He wanted someone who was hood but still cultured for good times, travel, friendship and more.
I was like, “Ok. Let’s do this.”
So I replied with a picture of myself and a basic description. Within 5 minutes he wrote back with pics of him and his girl. Ok. Cute. I can do that.
Then we emailed back and forth for a little while, him describing his businesses and me describing my work and my personality. I was completely honest about the fact that I don’t really have good experiences with men and definitely don’t have them in my life for too long and he shared how he and his girl have an understanding of no secrets and how they work well together because of this. Basically they are looking for a woman to share their lives with, to travel with and to be lovers with and to SPOIL. ~love that concept~
I’m looking for friends to hang out with. A couple would be ideal because when I’m with a couple and both are attracted to me I feel so special and cute and I feel like a lady. I love that feeling!
So we exchanged numbers and This morning she sent me a goodmorning text saying that they would be in my area this weekend and wanted to meet for drinks.
Man, I was so grateful! Finally, someone is inviting me to hang out. Geesh! It’s been so long. We arranged time for this weekend and I am so excited except, I don’t have anything to wear. Maybe I’ll go buy something simple so I won’t look too horrible. I just bought new underwear and bras- my FIRST SET since I gave everything away during my project and I haven’t worn them yet because I was waiting for something special to happen besides going to work.
So yay! I get to go out and do something besides work and I get to meet a couple who is interested in dating me.
I’m so happy!
I hope she likes me and I hope I like them! He seems very dominant and positive and his talents are where my weak points are so I’m hoping he’ll share his expertise in business with me. we exchanged links about our professional work and he was equally impressed by my portfolio as I was with his. He says he’s open to making money with me but he’s really interested in making a long term friend and companion for him and his girl.
Threesome? He says he’s been there and done that and he wants something more special this time.
ME TOO!
Man. I’m happy right now. I’m so glad I took the risk and I am looking forward to seeing if I could make some new friends with benefits and that he’s really as positive and sweet as he describes himself to be.
It’ll be so nice to have someone who wants to spend time with me, not because I need help but because they actually like hanging out with me.
I’ll let you know what happens!