Mimi’s Getting Married!

Mireille (Mimi) is engaged and I met her fiance for the first time this weekend. I was about to go out to lunch with Bev and Mimi calls and I hear this manly voice in the background. I ask Mimi who that is and she says it is Chris. I laugh and say, “So he is a REAL man!” and she asks me what Im wearing. I reply, “I’m looking too good so you better come with it!” She says she will be over in 10 minutes with Chris.

Perfect timing. My house is clean! LOL. SO I can have surprise company. ~ROFL~

Ya’ll know Im not the neatest person, ok Im pretty messy ad unorganized but thats why I gotta get rich so I can hire maids. ANyway…

Im kinda nervous because now I am about to meet the man that is going to be Mimi’s other half. (I HAVE to ask permission before I share the story of how they got together but BELIEVE ME, you aint ready to hear about this!)

I’m feeling really emotional. Mimi is like my big sister. I love her as much as I love my bestfriends. She is one of my bestfriends. She is amazing. So, Bev arrives and we’re talking about clothes while my heart beats fast because I know that I am about to meet this man who will replace me in Mimi’s life. Ive known for a while that she was going to get married but now its real to me and I struggled with accepting it because I was jealous and I wanted her all to myself.

She knocks on the door and I fling it open and cover my eyes. I can feel him step in and I uncover my eyes and scream.

BROTHA IS SOOO FINE! He is tall with huge muscles and light skinned with green eyes. Mmmmm. Go head sista! I smile at him and I cant say much. Im in shock because this man is going to become my brother. I ask him for a hug and he gives me one and I feel a peace about the whole situation. I ask him, “Do you think you can love Mimi more than I love Mimi?” He looks at Mimi and says, “I think so.” I reply, “Well, I hope so but I dont know about that.”

They leave and me and Bev go out to eat and have a great lunch. WHile I am out with her Im realizing what a cool girl she is and how blessed I am to have such phenomenal friends. Seriously, ALL of the women I hang with are dynamic. If I was man I could pick any one of them to marry and Id be deliriously happy. Cuz they are the marrying type. ALL OF THEM.

I was telling my mama this and she said, “What about crazy Anna?” I said, “Ma, all Anna wants is a family. She may be buck wild but as soon as she gets that man she desires she will be faithful and love him and raise her children and live a good life. I dont see her messing up. It’s what she has always wanted, a man to love her and act right.” I hope that he is saved and can love her with the love of Christ. If that is the foundation of their relationship, then Anna will be crazy in love and happy.

I thought about Jenny V. who I admire so much for being so generous and smart and shes a LAWYER, who wouldnt want her? I thought about Stephanie with her stank attitude. But shes a great homemaker and so doggone classy. I wish I was like her in that aspect. Nadia’s the bomb cuz shes goofy but smart, giving but strong. I would marry her in a minute. And my girl Tamara- man, I dont know what her baby daddy is thinking. He actually thinks he can find someone better than her! yeah right! Actually, I wouldnt marry Tamara, she’s too skinny, but I would fix her up with my brother cuz I know she’d treat him well.

Then I thought to myself, “If I was a man, would I marry myself?” ABSOLUTELY NOT!Why? Cuz Im CRAZY! For real! If you know me you KNOW I’m crazy! I’m emotional. I wouldnt put up with myself for more than a couple months, then Id have to get out of there QUICK!

And thats cool. ~smile~ Cuz my husband will be NOTHING like me. He’ll be georgeous, Im sure, and talented in the arts, but he’ll be the type of man who will grab me up and throw me on the bed and slam the bedroom door!

Singing that song, ‘Come Baby Come’ by whoever those guys were:

I slam the door!

Huhh!

When I come into the bedroom!

Wham! Bam!

Cuz Im the King of the Castle!

Na, na, na!

~Whoooo~ Let me guard my thoughts before I go too far. ~he, he, he~

Calm down girl. Yeah….He’ll know how to handle my emotional trips and ofcourse he’ll love me with the love of God, forgiving me and supporting me while letting me know who is in charge. I need that. ~batting my eyelashes~

Yeahhh righhhhht.. LOL

Will all this REALLY happen? Will I ever meet LLCoolJ? LOL! I wish!

Im happy for Mimi though. I pray for her and I wish her the best in her relationship. Shes my DAWG!