I sorta got a treat yesterday.

I was up early talking on the phone with Tamara and guess who called? Anna! I was so excited. These two women are my two bestfriends from childhood and I love it when we can arrange a conference call because it reminds me of the old days.

To my utter surprise and dismay, the conversation went on for almost an hour and I couldn’t even participate. Anna and Tamara talked about their fiance’s and how their daughters are relating to them. They discussed in detail the highs and lows of allowing someone else to help you raise your child. For the most part they praised the men for taking such an interest in their children and truly stepping in as Daddy.

The the conversation flowed to their impending weddings. Both ladies will be married this year.

“What colors did you choose?”

“How big is your wedding party?”

“How did you come up with that date?”

Just to participate in the conversation I asked them, “Do you feel like your fiance is your soulmate or just some man you chose?”

Anna chimed in first, “At first I looked at him as some man that I might choose. When I looked at it that way, I was looking for negative traits in him so I could cut him loose. The more I looked, the more I realized that he was right for me. Now I know he’s my soulmate.”

“Same with AJ. No matter how hard I tried I just couldn’t get away from him. You remember me trying to see other people? All that drama. He cares about me. I can see it everyday.”

~rolls eyes~


Whatever. It’s just…a year ago we were ALL single together.

You know how you would sit around and wonder who was gonna be the first and the last to get married?


I guess…I’m hoping…

God’s just saving the best for last.