I was chatting with a guy today on SL.
He’s an artist and he just won an art competition. I thought that was pretty hot.
But today he was upset because a woman he met asked him not to contact him again on SL. He started going off about how he doesn’t even like her because she’s involved in SL slavery. He was trying to get me to say how wrong it is and how we should ban together to fight slavery on SL.
I was like… ~shrugs~
First of all, SL is a place people CHOOSE to be. And it’s a place where you can role play your deepest fantasies. Why would I war against people who are choosing to engage in slavery on SL?
He couldn’t understand my point of view. He tried to engage me in an argument that slavery is having no choice over your life and why would anyone choose that.
I shrugged.
They choose it because that’s what they want for their life.
He argued that they need to awaken their mentality and choose life.
I shrugged. I told him that I can’t fight anyone’s battle for them, especially when they don’t believe they have a battle to fight.
Then I told him that he shouldn’t be upset that she removed herself from his life. There were obvious differences in lifestyle and leisure activities. Everyone doesn’t enjoy the same things, why hold on to people if you have to change them to fit into your mold?
I’m kinda into non resistance, man.
If you wanna go away..bye.
If you don’t want me to stay..I’ll leave.
I’m not trying to infringe my lifestyle or choices on you, man.
If I disagree I’ll just fall back from you, man.
No biggie. We just aren’t headed in the same direction. It’s no one’s fault.
Don’t try to hold onto someone who is pushing you away. Though relationships should be a mutual agreement to give love and support, most relationships are built around power. You give away your power when you run behind someone who is not interested in you. They hold all the power because they will not compromise to keep you and you will, just to keep them.
When someone is yours they won’t walk away.
That’s it. Point blank. I know it’s hard to believe but it’s true. You don’t have to strategically position yourself or chase anyone down.
You are a powerful magnet for everything that is yours and you have to do nothing but be open to receive, believeing that you deserve every good thing that is about to come into your life.