The Rules

I’m not one to play head games in relationships. When I was out there “playing the field” I would be up front about what I wanted. And sometimes it wasn’t a relationship.

I just read this book called Lil Mama’s Rules, by Sheneska Jackson. The main character, Madison, had a list of rules that she never broke when dating men. It was a very interesting book. A real page turner, but I learned a valuable lesson; sometimes we overlook the important things because we are too busy making up guidelines to keep our hearts from being punctured.

We are taught from youth that we need to follow the rules to be socially accepted. But the real history makers always broke the rules. They challenged what was deemed acceptable and made strides in our society that we should all be grateful for.

But some rules are golden and are in place for a reason. Like if you’re having sex, always wear a condom. And don’t cross the street without looking both ways.

Are there any rules that you live by that you will never, EVER break? Are there any rules that you broke, but wish you hadn’t? Was there ever a time when you were glad you broke the rules?

Holla at ya girl.