“I’ve been paying you a thousand dollars a month since my kids were born.”- My BBDD
WTF?
No, try “You take care of your household and I’ll take care of mine.” That’s what you really said.
I wonder how the hell he chooses to try to lie to me like I wasn’t there. I also wonder if his friends and family believes his lies. By the fact that he tries to lie to ME and himself I can only imagine what he is saying to people about me.
I remember talking to his mother once and her telling me that I overdrafted his account several times and I was like, “What? Sorry but your son is a liar.”
I’m trying to keep it together but it’s hard when so much is opposite of what you want.
I encourage myself by remembering that I am experiencing a contrasting situation right now. This is the time of my life where I’ll look back and be so grateful for it because it made me appreciate the success I have.
This is the down time. This is the time where I feel all hope is lost and I can’t see my way. I read about these scenarios all the time as I study the lives of successful people. They all went through this time where they said, “Why am I doing this?”
But then they remembered that they could not be doing anything else. They persevered.
They came out on top.
I’m going to come out on top too. No matter what today looks like, my fortune is coming, my blessing is coming.
Things could completely change at any given moment.
As Tamara likes to say, “Things never stay the same.”
I’ma be alright.
And my BBDD, well, he’ll have his own karma to deal with.
The truth never stays hidden for long.