I’m reading my inspirational articles and feeling great when I come across this article. It detailed how to create the life of your dreams and it had some great questions. I actually went through this process with Tamara the other day before I even READ the article because I wanted her to really envision her dream life and it was fun!
She talked about how she wanted to be a Mom with 3 more kids. Drive a Benz truck, running her tax business and sitting down to dinner every night with her family. She said Wednesday nights would be Tamara’s surprise…where she’d experiment in the kitchen. She remembered how when she was engaged she was the woman of the house and she felt important. She loved that feeling and wants it again. I want her to have it too so I let her talk and asked questions about everything from her hairstyle to what kind of car she’d drive when she picked me up from the airport when I came to visit.
My turn!
MY DREAM LIFESTYLE
1. Where would I live?
EVERYWHERE! I’d be traveling and seeing the world at my leisure. Writing from the most beautiful and inspiring parts of the world. Of course I’d have a home in Miami and one in another country. There would be a beach nearby so I can walk and watch the sun rise or set. It would be NOTHING for me to hop a flight or a jet and spend a few months here or a few months there..learning growing..loving…writing..making money..speaking.. ~sigh~
2. What would my house look like?
The one in Miami? Well, it’ll probably be settled just outside of Miami, a little north to avoid the crowds. It would be lovely to be on the beach or close enough. I’d love for it to have lots of windows but still be ventilated. I saw a house on the beach one that was so cool… It was right on the boardwalk in Hollywood. As long as I don’t have to clean it…I’m good. I just need a quiet place to retreat from the world…
3. What time would I wake up?
Whenever my body woke me up.
4. What would I do in the morning?
Wake up. Stretch. Walk. Call my friends. Check my email. Dance. Get back in bed.
5. What would you do in the first half of your day?
Call my assistant to see what was going on with my schedule. Make decisions on what I want to do with the rest of my day. Have lunch with my friends. Laugh.
6. Who would you have lunch/dinner with?
I’d have lunch with my friends and then dinner with my kids or an admirer. Hopefully..it’s someone I admire BACK. LOL
7. What would my friends be like?
The same friends I have now. They aren’t going anywhere.
8. What are my clients like?
You mean…my readers? Oh. they’ll be people of various ages looking for a breakthrough in their mental state. Maybe I’ll still be counseling then too so I guess my counseling clients will be looking for the same thing; coaching, guidance, someone to help change their perspective so they can have a great life.
9. What are my relationships like? What do we like about each other?
My sons and I are so close. They call me everyday. They fly out to see me whenever they can and they read all of my books and watch me on TV and brag about me all the time because they love how I created the life of my dreams. I love how they live life so freely..without trying to fit in or be what others expect them to be. I love my friends and how we STILL support and celebrate each other! Its awesome being a part of someone’s life for so long..knowing their WHOLE story…and holding hands the entire time…
10. What do we do for family time?
We go on adventures! In foreign countries! And just hang out and explore! Yes!
11. WHat is my relationship like with my kids? What do we appreciate about each other?
Huh? I thought we answered that question already in number 9.
12. What would we talk about over dinner?
Whatever they want to talk about..
13. What would I do at night?
Um…I’ll probably have someone special in my life. Someone creative and brilliant who adores me and loves to be around me. We’ll probably hang out in the evening and I’ll watch that person go to sleep and I’ll stay up to write and create until the wee hours of the morning.
14. Who would I do it with?
I don’t know. Hopefully Kanye. But if not him…then a very special lady…that i can learn from and admire and be super sexually free with. Yum!
15. What would my thoughts be as I go to sleep?
OH MY GOSH! I CANT BELIEVE I AM IN THIS BEAUTIFUL ASS HOME WITH MY OWN BOOKS ON THE SHELF AND A FULL REFRIGERATOR AND THIS FINE ASS CHICK IN MY BED WHO ADORES ME! OH SHIT! AM I IN HEAVEN OR SOMETHING! YEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!