I feel like a kid whose mouth has been taped shut. I have a lot to say.
In thinking about the men that I admire I had an epiphany. Let’s take a look.
Kanye West
The Prez
Mos Def
Obama
Lenny Kravitz
Why do I find it so easy to “fall” for men like the ones mentioned above?
What do these men have in common?
They all are using their God-given talents of creativity and personality to engage a specific audience and propel themselves to prosperity.
Why does that equal attraction in my eyes?
Because they are all doing what I would like to do.
Each one of these men displays qualities that I know that I possess but for some reason, they are all way ahead in the game than I am.
My attraction to The Prez was merely because he is where I would like to see myself in the future. He has achieved a goal that I would like to achieve and my admiration has transformed itself into lust and love.
In recent months I have been doing a lot of studying about soul mates and how people have found theirs, how they recognized them and how to attract one. It’s really interesting reading but lately I’m thinking that a soul mate relationship can not be purposely attracted because it is divinely matched therefore divinely timed.
One of the things I learned during this time is that the dream mate that we seek is really a reflection of who we want to be and in our desire to attract our true love, we must strive to become the type of person that we seek.
This theory was reinforced when I took a moment to re-watch my own Manifesting my Soul Mate video. ~shakes head~
This is really blowing my mind right now!
Every single attribute that I claimed that I expected from my soul mate are all attributes that I already possess.
I am brilliant and creative like Kanye.
I have a sexy swagger like Mos Def.
I am strong and charismatic like Obama.
I am Mm..mm..Good like LL
I am a little cocky and silly at times.
I am a bit of a nerd too.
But I love me anyway.
It’s as though…
I wrote this video love letter to myself.
All of this time I had been hoping for a certain type of love from a man, when it really already existed in…me.
I am my soulmate.
I wonder what that means…