Creating Grace

I thought about it for a second and then I responded, “I’d be a little sad but happy at the same time because I know you will be returning to Source. And…with the way our relationship works I know that you’ll contact me even in death and we’ll have so much fun traveling through other dimensions and stuff.”

Today we were talking and I’m sitting outside enjoying the bright, hot sun. I was telling him a few things that he does that annoys me and I guess he had enough because he said, “Well, remember the exception question? What DO you like about our friendship?”

I’m so glad he did that because for the rest of our conversation we just talked about why we are glad to be in each other’s lives.

I told him:

I manifested you. I remember learning about astral projection and lucid dreams and wishing I had someone to discuss philosophy with. Then you came into my life!

I also love how when I go out with you, I get in the club for free and you have such a great reputation that I feel important when I’m with you.

I also love the fact that even though I am a fairly new student of philosophy, I can talk to you and you don’t try to make me feel slow or dumb because I’m just catching on. You discuss with me as though it’s new for you too. And I appreciate that.

I love it when we talk all night and never run out of things to say.

I love it when you read to me over the phone. I have never had anyone do that and it makes me feel so good, like a lullaby gently rocking me to sleep.

He told me:

I love the way you laugh. It’s so distinct and funny.

I love how you have a goal and when I introduce you to people who will connect you with that goal, you take the ball and run with it. Most people are all talk, you aren’t.

I love it when you try to fight with me KNOWING you agree with everything I’m saying and you live by the same principles. You’re cute when you do that!

I love that we have this relationship and we sort of live in our own imaginary world.

I love when you send me balls of Divine Love and positive energy.

So often we focus too much on the things that seem to be wrong with our relationships instead of all the things that are going right. When you’re in a situation where you are complaining about something that did not go the way you wanted it to, just take a moment and ask yourself, “Is there any time where this situation (or person) has not mad me sad or mad?”

Make a list if you have to. WHatever it takes to shift your thinking from “THIS NEEDS TO CHANGE!” to “I AM HAPPY WITH THE WAY THINGS ARE.”

I like to call this process…creating grace.

Try it. You won’t be dissappointed.